Showing posts with label Odessa. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Odessa. Show all posts

Thursday, June 21, 2007

Beautiful Odessa

Update: the ten day waiting period ends today (Friday)! It's another one of the big markers that all families adopting in Ukraine anticipate. Of course it wouldn't be international adoption if we didn't have more red tape to navigate through, which means we won't be returning until next week. Dana and Christian will likely fly out of Odessa in the middle of next week, while the girls and I return to Kyiv to get their US passports at the American Embassy. So their homecoming won't take place until next weekend at the earliest. We're not complaining about the extra time though, because we absolutely love the envigorating and fascinating city of Odessa!

Today my youngest two children and I walked (you walk everywhere here) to what has become one of my all-time favorite restaurants. The Odesskya Boulevard Restaurant overlooking the Black Sea epitomizes the laid-back style of this resort city with excellent Ukrainian dishes and outdoor seating that rivals Paris!

A big bowl of Borsch cost $3 and is quite filling along with a slice or two of bread. As we discovered in Moscow, there's nothing better than a hot bowl of Borsch in the winter, which is much tastier than it looks!

For a touristy joint, the service is very friendly, but don't expect to ever sit down to a quick meal. They just don't understand the concept of lunch "hour."

I am not kidding about the comparisons to Paris. Much of downtown Odessa is even more beautiful!

The city was built (only 200 years ago) by French and Italian architects.


This is where to come to see the locals - the funky Sobornaya Square Park. It's one of the most unusual places I've ever experienced and I never tire of coming to just hang out.

Unlike the more touristy places, true artisans display their work here.


This is the place to come for good quality, handmade Ukranian stuff.

Everything happens in the shadows of the stunning Orthodox Church of the Transfiguration.

I sat under this Icon of Christ for more than an hour just watching people pass by.

The faithful stop right in their tracks, turn toward Christ, and cross themselves. This woman prayed outloud for several minutes. It is a scene that is repeated dozens of times throughout the day.

While I was sitting all alone, I had a bizarre and hilarious experience that I'll probably never figure out. You are warned by everyone to never mess with the cops in Ukraine, and to never try to take their picture. So, I was a little worried when this officer approached, prompting me to fumble for my passport. But he started showing me that he wanted me to take his picture. He took a few steps away and turned, and I happily obliged. Then I showed it to him, and let him know I thought it was a lousy shot....

Since he was now my buddy, I demonstrated how he needed to walk and try to look more natural. I had him go back and forth a few times snapping off several frames, finally deciding this shot looked OK, as onlookers observed the whole thing in amazement. He looked at the picture, said "cool" and just walked away!

I was so happy I didn't get detained that I paid double for these fresh cut flowers!

Friday, June 15, 2007

Beach Party

Adoptive families have a special bond and today we enjoyed a long overdue beach break with the Calzadilla family of Chicago, who are here to adopt 15 year old Vera. We have much in common with the Calzadillas as they have a soon-to-be five year old daughter, Elyse.


Elyse and Christian seem to be pretty cool with the fact that their days as only children are just about over!

The Black Sea water temperature is perfect - probably in the low 80's

On "Malibu" Beach, Sergei delivered lunch right to us...

And just like everywhere we go in Ukraine, it was delicious!

Nelson never dreamed he would be sitting on a Ukrainian beach in 2007 eating a steak!

Anastasia got a break from studying for her exit exams


Vika is one of the excellent "Team Oleg" translators. She just completed a four year degree, specializing in English and German. If you work with her in Ukraine, buy her lots of ice cream to make her happy!

This beautiful woman is the most amazing person I've ever known and I am the most grateful man alive because she is also my wife. Today Dana and I celebrated our 11th anniversary. Because of her outgoing and positive personality, no one would ever suspect that she lives in pain every day of her life due to Rheumatoid Arthritis, a condition she has suffered with since the age of 11. At times it has been crippling, yet she is the hardest working, kindest, and least judgemental person in the world. Her faith in God is unshakeable, so it's no suprise that she sees and loves everyone as a child of God.
We both know that our marriage and family life is about to change in a major way. But we are faithful knowing that we have already walked side by side through much joy and anguishing loss. Together, we are confident as we prepare to go forward as a family of five.

Tuesday, June 12, 2007

Lady in the Rain

Now we are in what is known as the "ten-day waiting period" which I just don't like the sound of. It's passive and is uninspiring after so much drama leading up to court. That is why I'm grateful for the woman in this shot. Southern Ukraine had its first rain in more than a month today. It was a huge thunderstorm that came on fast and Dana, Christian and I had to scramble for shelter with many others. It was pouring when this woman literally came dancing right down the middle of the main street! She was smiling, holding her arms out, and relishing in the moment as we all stood and cheered her on. Somehow I think she helped everyone who saw her feel a little bit more alive. You never know what you might see when you are waiting, and Odessa in the summer is a great place to do it!

Thursday, June 7, 2007

Orphanage #4

Pictures simply don't provide a good sense of how it feels to be at this place. I almost didn't use this shot because from this perspective, it doesn't look that much different from an old public school building back home. Efforts are made to make it more inviting, but the truth is this is a rundown old building most of us could never imagine having to live in.

The dining hall

The children have absolutely no privacy in their rooms, which sleep four.

I was surprised to see how much freedom they have to leave the premises. I saw several kids walking around the blighted neighborhood surrounding the internot.

But they have no money to go out and do things, so they end up doing alot of this.

Upkeep in the play areas and courtyards is sorely lacking.

I saw this tattered soccer goal as being symbolic of the broken world we all live in.

This is their TV room. There's no air conditioning anywhere making it very hot and musty in the summer and the enormous size of the complex makes it hard to heat in the winter.

New Soviet Woman

Comrade Danissa Buckmanovich Haleotsova make for you legal employment protections for small amount of kopecks

Wednesday, June 6, 2007

The Pearl Of The Black Sea


Now that we have our court date for next Tuesday, here are some shots and impressions after our first week in this wild and wonderful city!

Odessa is still in the best-kept secret category in the West, but make no mistake, this is a beautiful city. On our first morning, I was stunned as I walked down the street, turned the corner, and saw this Opera House! Surprisingly, Odessa is only 200 years old, and I'm not kidding, Paris doesn't have much on this place. A German gentleman who is staying in our apartments says he thinks Odessa will soon rival the French Riviera as a tourist destination.

This exquisite park is right across the street from our apartments. If you're coming to Odessa for adoption, you're going to be here for several weeks and you might as well enjoy it. I highly recommend staying in the central tourist district. We are very happy with our apartment. See here.


Odessa City Council meets in the Old Soviet Headquarters building.


Odessa is a great walking city, and has a truly international flavor, as this statue of its first governor demonstrates, France's Duke Richelieu.


Turn around to get this view of the Black Sea.


Fashions in Odessa, are, shall we say.....


Immodest! These shoes are typically accompanied by a very tight, very short skirt, short or pants. What is amazing is how much walking they do in this footwear. But you don't see any of the natives in Tevas or Birkenstocks. Think of Odessa as the anti-Portland!


Christian is having a blast! Odessa is very kid friendly with lots of fun parks and playgrounds

My little man ascending the famous Potemkin Steps.


Nastia, Dana and friend Tania strolling along the boulevard.


Ukrainian food has been one of the nicest suprises. They've always considered themselves to be more cultured than the Russians and I can vouch for that when it comes to cooking. It's excellent, and inexpensive.


It's also nice to be in a country where Americans are treated with respect!


One of the first things you notice are stray animals everywhere.


Dogs like this wild looking Dingo hybrid roam the streets and alleyways.

Ukrainians are some of the most naturally beautiful people in the world.

But sadly, this is how most of them live. You don't have to drive far before seeing the decay and depressed living conditions.
Most Americans would call this slum living, but I've noticed something interesting. Many of the people who live like this are hard working, well educated, cultured people who would thrive in America. Yet I don't get the feeling that they are clamoring to leave. They know their country is struggling, but they are proud of it and they carry themselves with dignity and a distinctive style.

We have fallen in love with Ukraine and its hearty people. Please pray for them.